Living the Grace Life

Healing After Abortion: Grace, Hope & Recovery with Tonya B. Jones | Ep. 80

One in four women will have an abortion at some point in their lifetime. Yet so many silently wonder if healing after abortion is truly possible. If you’ve ever carried the weight of shame, regret, or unanswered questions, this conversation offers hope.
April is Abortion Recovery Awareness Month, and in this powerful episode, we answer with a resounding yes—healing is possible. Tonya Bailey Jones, retired Naval Officer and author of Pearls in the Pews, shares her deeply personal journey through multiple abortions, hidden shame, and her eventual path to freedom through God’s mercy and grace.
Together, we explore what it means to step out of hiding, get honest with God, and begin the process of true healing. Tonya offers a compassionate and honest look at the realities many women face, along with the grace that meets them there.
In this episode, you'll learn:
Why healing after abortion often begins with honesty
The impact of past wounds on present choices and identity 
Tonya's journey of "unmasking" and finding freedom
Common misconceptions about grace in abortion conversations
The importance of grieving in post-abortion healing
Normalizing grace in the church for women seeking restoration
If you've ever stood at the corner of a hard decision—or carried one quietly ever since—you are not alone. There is grace for your story and hope for your healing.
💬  Grace Quotes from Tonya B. Jones:
"Your soul needs the grace of God, but you can't receive it while you keep condemning yourself.”
"The heart of an abortion-wounded woman is grieving and they often don't know it."
“If you can love the abortion-wounded woman to life, you'll love her to keeping the life of her baby."
 
Scriptures Mentioned:
Romans 8:1 – Living free from condemnationRevelation 12:11 – Defeated by the Blood of the Lamb
 
Resources Mentioned:
🌿 Tonya's book Pearls in the Pews🌿 Rachel's Vineyard Abortion Recovery and Retreat Center🌿 Alternatives to abortion and recovery support: Care Net
🎶  Tonya's go-to grace song Thank You for the Blood by Charity Gayle
Connect with Tonya B. Jones:
Website: tonyabjones.comInstagram: @blessed1_t2wFacebook: @thetonyabjones
Related Episodes:
Ep. 61 Walking in Grace & Other People's Shoes with Neil MatthewsEp. 60 Healing from Life's Deepest Hurts with Kimberly HaarEp. 54 Grace Cleans the Messy Past with James Early
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He Knows Your Name with Paige Allen | Ep. 79

Do you ever feel invisible—unseen behind the pile of laundry or overlooked in the boardroom? In this episode of Living the Grace Life, we’re asking a deeply personal question: what changes when you truly believe He knows your name? If you’ve ever wondered whether you’ve been forgotten, this conversation is a powerful reminder that you are fully seen, known, and loved by God.
Author and speaker Paige Allen joins us to talk about her book He Knows Your Name and what it means to live from a place of belonging instead of striving. With honesty, humor, and depth, Paige invites us to step out of hiding—from behind performance, expectations, or accomplishments—and into the freedom of being God’s beloved.
Together, we explore how identity rooted in grace reshapes the way we live, rest, and relate to others.
In our conversation, we explore:
Why names matter and what they reveal about identity
Paige's experience growing up as a pastor's kid and navigating expectations
What it means to live like God's daughter (or son) first
How rest and celebration help us remember who we are
Why chasing approval leads to isolation and disconnection
The story of the Bleeding Woman and how her healing speaks to our longing to be seen
Paige Allen is a pastor, speaker, and writer whose hilarious yet deeply vulnerable storytelling disarms listeners and creates space for truth to take root in the heart.
If you’ve ever struggled to find your place or questioned your worth, this conversation will gently remind you of what’s always been true: He knows your name.
 
💬  Grace Quotes from Paige Allen:
"There's something profound about the Lord coming to us and saying, 'Hey, who are you?'”
"We still have to do things. But everything comes across differently when it's flowing from a place of security—that I'm his daughter or son."
“God just loves his kids so much that he comes after us, again and again."
 
Scriptures Mentioned:
Luke 8:43-48 – The Bleeding Woman receives healing2 Corinthians 4:7-8 – The treasure of Jesus in earthen vessels
 
Resources Mentioned:
🌿  Chapter One of Paige's book He Knows Your Name
🎶  Paige's go-to grace song Love Note by Abbie Gamboa
Connect with Paige Allen:
Website: paigeallen.netInstagram: @paigeallentexasFacebook: @itspaigeallen
Related Episodes:
Ep. 30 Growing Secure Attachment with God with Summer Joy GrossEp. 71 How to Live Deeply Loved with Bill & Kristi GaultiereEp. 70 Grace in the Story of Ruth with Mariel Davenport
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Where is God in Infertility? with Angela Mackey | Ep. 78

Where is God in infertility? It’s a question many couples quietly carry as they walk through one of life’s most painful and isolating experiences. With one in six couples facing infertility, the ache is widespread—but often hidden, especially in faith communities. In today’s episode of Living the Grace Life, we gently step into that question: Where is God in infertility, and how do we hold onto faith when answers don’t come?
Author of Difficult to Conceive, Angela Mackey knows this journey intimately. After enduring two tubal pregnancies, one of which nearly cost her life, along with the heartbreak of pregnancy loss and the emotional rollercoaster of IVF, Angela found herself wrestling deeply with God’s goodness. In her most honest moments, she asked the same question so many are afraid to say out loud: Where is God in infertility?
In this grace-filled conversation, Angela shares how God met her not with easy answers, but with His Presence in the middle of grief, confusion, and longing. Together, we talk about how to navigate the tension between hope and heartache, and how faith can remain steady even when circumstances don’t change.
In this episode, we explore:
The struggle between control and surrender
The tension between hope and heartache in infertility
What to do when God's promises don't match your reality
The healing power of lament and honest prayer
Practical tools for grieving infertility and pregnancy loss
How the church can better support those walking through infertility
If you’ve ever wondered where is God in infertility, this conversation will remind you that even in the silence, He is near. And even when the outcome isn’t what you prayed for, His grace is still at work—bringing hope, healing, and deeper intimacy with Him.
 
💬  Grace Quotes from Angela Mackey:
"Grace is like manna—enough for the day.”
"I'm bringing you low so that I can bless you, not to harm you. So you can walk out of this changed and closer to me. - God"
“The only way to overcome the darkness is to go to the Lord with our lament and receive His grace."
 
Scriptures Mentioned:
Genesis 32:22-32 – Jacob wrestles with God1 Samuel 1:9-28 – Hannah prays for a sonHebrews 12:2 – Jesus endured the shame and suffering of the cross
 
Resources Mentioned:
🌿  Angela's book Difficult to Conceive
🎶  Angela's go-to grace song Abide by Aaron Williams
Connect with Angela Mackey:
Website: angelamackey.comInstagram: @rethinkingmythinkingFacebook: @angelamackey/ChristianSpeaker
Related Episodes:
Ep. 57 Finding Grace in Miscarriage and Grief with Ashley OpligerEp. 13 I Didn't Sign Up for This: Resting in God's Goodness with Sarah FrazerEp. 42 God, Can We Chat? with Niki Hardy 
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The Hallway Miracle with Cara Shine on Fear and Faith | Ep. 77

Fear swept through Washington D.C. during the Beltway Sniper attacks—but inside one elementary school hallway, something unexpected happened.
Today on Living the Grace Life, I’m joined by Cara Shine, author of The Hallway Miracle, to talk about the moment when fear and faith collided. And how even the smallest step of faith can change a life. 
Raised in the Jewish faith and bullied by peers, Cara carried deep wounds that made her wary of Jesus. During the 2002 Washington D.C. Beltway Sniper Attacks, she was paralyzed by fear. But inside her school, the teachers seemed unafraid.
A desk calendar.A package of peanut M & M's.A principal's pocket cross. 
These small, ordinary items became the unexpected pathway that helped Cara lay down her fear and begin picking up faith.
In this episode, we explore:
Real-life barriers like racism, bullying, and cultural heritage
Trauma of living through a public crisis
Surprising power of small acts of faith
The Holy Ripple Effect of living out our faith
The Prayer that changed everything 
Cara’s journey included forgiving those who bullied her and leaving behind thirty-year-old scars and the belief that she wanted nothing to do with Jesus—and that Jesus wanted nothing to do with her.
If you’ve ever felt outside the bounds of God’s love, let Cara’s story guide you to your own Heneni, the Hebrew word meaning “God, here I am.”
Cara Shine’s story in The Hallway Miracle shows how even small acts of courage and faith can ripple outward, changing lives in ways we may never see.
 
💬  Grace Quotes from Cara Shine:
"Because I wasn't seeking God, I was vulnerable and anxiety found me.”
"Rob and Sharon had this peace in the middle of chaos that didn't make any sense to me. I wanted it too."
“Because of their genuine friendship, I was influenced by their faith until it became mine."
 
Scripture Mentioned:
Matthew 22:36-40 – The Shema Prayer and the Greatest Commandment
 
Resources Mentioned:
🌿  Cara's book The Hallway Miracle
🎶  Cara's go-to grace song Shout to the Lord by Darlene Zschech
Connect with Cara Shine:
Website: carashine.comInstagram: @carashineauthor
 
Related Episodes:
Ep. 61 Walking in Grace & Other People's Shoes with Neil MatthewsEp. 10 Scars of Grace: Embracing Our Woundedness for Wholeness with Russell JoyceEp. 6 Real Conversations About Anxiety and Grace with Caris Snider
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Grace for the Anxious Soul with Becky Keife | 76

Anxiety can feel like a deep-down soul weariness that convinces us we’re stuck indefinitely. But what if the anxious soul is not only struggling—but also being invited into something deeper with God? In this conversation, author and mental health advocate Becky Keife helps us see how anxiety can become an unexpected doorway to grace, healing, and deeper dependence on Jesus.
Becky, author of A Verse a Day for the Anxious Soul, brings both compassion and biblical wisdom to the topic of anxiety. Together we talk honestly about what anxiety feels like, how it shows up differently in each of us, and how God meets us right in the middle of our messy, overwhelming moments.
If you’ve ever carried the quiet weight of worry or felt like your mind never fully rests, this episode offers practical help and spiritual encouragement for the anxious soul.
In this episode, we explore
What anxiety actually feels like and how it manifests for different people
Questions that help distinguish everyday fatigue from anxiety or depression
What's at stake when we don't seek help
Anxiety management strategies that don't work
Grace in the story of Zacchaeus the tax collector 
Becky's go-to Peace Practices for calming the anxious mind
How anxiety can become an unexpected gift that leads us toward God
We close our conversation with one of Becky’s favorite breath prayers—a simple practice you can return to whenever anxiety rises.
If you’ve ever lived with the persistent weight of an anxious soul, this episode will remind you that Jesus meets you with grace, presence, and peace.
💬 Grace Quotes from Becky Keife:
"Grace lifts our eyes up.”
"I can know a lot of truth, but I have to live it for it to make a difference.
“Living in the 'and's' of life is our open hands to receive God's grace."
 
Scriptures Mentioned:
Matthew 11:28-30 – Jesus invites us to take His yoke and find rest for our souls.
Luke 19:1-10 – The story of Zacchaeus, reminding us Jesus welcomes us before we clean ourselves up.
Resources Mentioned:
🌿Becky's book A Verse a Day for the Anxious Soul
🎶 Becky's go-to grace song I Speak Jesus by Charity Gayle
Connect with Becky Keife:
Website: beckykeife.comInstagram: @beckykeifeFacebook: @beckykeife
 
Related Episodes:
Ep. 61 Walking in Grace & Other People's Shoes with Neil MatthewsEp. 10 Scars of Grace: Embracing Our Woundedness for Wholeness with Russell JoyceEp. 39 God's Steadfast Love in Daily Life with Rachael Adams
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Sunday God Meets Monday Mom, Erin Greneaux | Ep. 75

What if Sunday God Meets Monday Mom is more than a book title? What if it’s the invitation your soul has been longing for? In this episode of Living the Grace Life, award-winning author Erin Greneaux joins us to talk about how Sunday God meets Monday mom in the messy, ordinary, beautiful chaos of motherhood.
Have you ever gotten a parking ticket on your child’s field trip? Missed “Muffins with Mom”? Snapped when you meant to stay calm? Erin gently reminds us that grace isn’t earned on Sunday and spent by Monday; it’s a gift we receive right in the middle of everyday life.
As a mom of three girls, Erin has learned that grace is often hardest to receive when we think we must deserve it—and just as hard when we think we don’t need it. In Sunday God Meets Monday Mom, she invites mothers to experience God not in grand spiritual moments, but in the small, unseen spaces of daily faithfulness.
🎙In our conversation, we explore:
How to spend time with God when your margin is small
Moving from check box faith to real life with God
Recognizing where God is at work in everyday moments
Questions that invite God into your daily rhythms
Training your mind to see God in ordinary parenthood
The heart behind her book Sunday God Meets Monday Mom
💛 If you’re feeling depleted, touched out, spiritually dry, or quietly wondering if you’re doing enough…
This episode offers practical, accessible wisdom rooted in the message of Sunday God Meets Monday Mom, that grace meets you in small, ordinary moments.
 
💬 Grace Quotes from Erin Greneaux:
"God has something He wants to show you about Himself, especially in the crazy moments.”
"Seeking God in everyday moments trains our brain for how to view life."
“When you train your mind and heart to see God in everyday moments, then you'll see him in crises as well."
 
Resources Mentioned:
🌿Erin's book Sunday God Meets Monday Mom🌿Weekly Devos
🎶 Erin's go-to grace song O, Lord You're Beautiful
Connect with Erin Greneaux:
Website: greneauxgardens.comInstagram: @eringreneauxFacebook: @greneauxgardens
 
Related Episodes:
Ep. 58 When Grace Meets Special Needs Parenting with Becky BeresfordEp. 52 Chasing Grace with Carol McLeodEp. 39 God's Steadfast Love in Daily Life with Rachael Adams
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I Can Only Imagine 2 with Producer Cindy Bond | Ep. 74

I Can Only Imagine became one of the highest-grossing music biopics of all time. In this episode, producer Cindy Bond shares the unexpected, grace-filled journey behind the film and the highly anticipated I Can Only Imagine 2.
Before she became a Hollywood producer, Cindy Bond was raised by her grandparents, came to faith at a Billy Graham Crusade at Candlestick Park, and pursued acting alongside actors including George Clooney and Michelle Pfeiffer. Unexpectedly, she stepped in to produce a theater show when the original producer quit. What she didn’t know then was that God was shaping her into what she now calls a “media missionary.”
Despite hardship, detours, and closed doors, Cindy’s life is a testimony to how struggle creates empathy--and empathy opens the door to grace.
In this powerful conversation, we talk about forgiveness, second chances, staying grounded in a competitive industry, and the debut of I Can Only Imagine 2.
🎙 In This Episode, We Discuss:
Cindy's unexpected route to producing I Can Only Imagine
How hardship shaped her faith and calling
The journey from compassion → empathy → grace
The prayer Cindy prays every morning
Rhythms of grace that keep her grounded in Hollywood
Living with awareness of what's going on around us--and in us
What audiences can expect from I Can Only Imagine 2
💛 If You’ve Ever Struggled to Forgive…
This episode will gently challenge your perspective and invite you into grace beyond your limitations. Cindy reminds us that redemption isn’t just cinematic, it’s personal.
💬 Grace Quotes from Cindy Bond:
"Struggle creates empathy and empathy leads to grace.”
"We're not just playing church anymore. We're being real. We're being authentic. And these moveis are filled with second chances, just like we need."
“Movies are a mission field. For two hours, we get to pour in hope and redemption to a captive audience."
 
Resources Mentioned:
🌿I Can Only Imagine and I Can Only Imagine 2🌿I Can Only Imagine 2 Trailer
🎶 Cindy's go-to grace songs I Can Only Imagine, Even If, It is Well with My Soul
Connect with Cindy Bond:
Website: ICanOnlyImagine.comInstagram: @cindy_bond007Facebook: @ICanOnlyImagine
 
Related Episodes:
Ep. 61 Walking in Grace and Other People's Shoes with Neil MatthewsEp. 60 Healing from Life's Deepest Hurts with Kim HaarEp. 36 Don't Hoard Your Healing with Nancy Manassero
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Japanese American Incarceration and Unexpected Grace | Ep. 73

How does grace survive in the face of deep injustice? In this episode, Jennifer Sakata explores Japanese American Incarceration during World War II and the unexpected grace that emerged from unimaginable loss and trauma.
In This Episode:
The impact of Executive Order 9066
Stories from Jennifer's husband's family
The testimony of Mr. Ted Nagata, incarcerated at Topaz camp
How forgiveness and grace can follow injustice
Why Japanese American Remembrance Day matters
On February 19, 1942, Executive Order 9066 led to the forced removal and incarceration of over 120,000 people of Japanese ancestry, most of them American citizens. Jennifer reflects on this history through personal stories that reveal not only what was taken, but what endured: faith, dignity, and grace.
Why This Story Still Matters
Families lost homes, businesses, and freedom
Communities endured life behind the barbed wire
Survivors modeled humility, forgiveness, and resilience
Remembrance leads to healing and justice
Jennifer closes with a prayer inspired by Psalm 139 and a call to extend unexpected grace, protect civil liberties, and choose forgiveness over bitterness.
A Closing Invitation
Jennifer ends with a prayer inspired by Psalm 139 and a call to:
Extend unexpected grace
Protect civil liberties
Choose forgiveness over bitterness
 
💬 Grace Quotes from Jennifer Sakata:
"Behind these facts stand the lives of people whose families, livelihoods, and futures were completely and sometimes irreparably upended."
"Many people offered pardon in place of finger-pointing. Because grace always takes a different path."
"Grace compels us to extend forgiveness beyond our ability to give it."
 
Resources:
Burn Order podcast by Rachel Maddow
Interview with Mr. Ted Nagata, courtesy of Densho Digital Repository
A Place Where Sunflowers Grow by Amy Lee Tai (children's picture book)
Baseball Saved Us by Ken Mochizuki (children's picture book)
Weedflower by Cynthia Kadohata (for middle schoolers and early highschoolers)
Farewell to Manzanar by Jeanne Wakatsuki Houston & James D. Houston
Impounded: Dorothea Lange and the Censored Images of Japanese American Internment ed. by Linda Gordon & Gary Okihiro
When the Emperor Was Divine by Julie Otsuka
Only What We Could Carry: The Japanese American Internment Experience ed. by Lawson Fusao Inada
Related Episodes:
Ep. 36 Don't Hoard Your Healing with Nancy ManasseroEp. 27 Unexpected Grace & the Impact of Executive Order 9066Ep. 10 Scars of Grace: Embracing Our Woundedness for Wholeness with Russell Joyce
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Ep. 72 Grace Behind Our Smiles | Joe and Tara Buchanan

Have you ever wondered what’s really going on behind those smiles? On today’s episode of Living the Grace Life, I’m joined by Joe and Tara Buchanan, co-hosts of the Behind Our Smiles podcast, who vulnerably share how God’s grace met them in the middle of a marriage most counselors would have said won't last, and how healing replaced heartbreak.
In our conversation, we explore:
What happens when family systems collide
Substitutes for grace in marriage, including self-sufficiency and unrealistic expectations
Self-awareness opens the door to vulnerability and transformation
Rhythms of grace that nurture connection and trust
John 15 and what it means to truly abide in the source of grace
At the end of the day, grace invites us to wrestle with Joe and Tara's question "We all need fixing, and we all need God to transform us, but into whose image, and into what kind of person?"
Whether your marriage feels strong and life-giving or fragile and exhausting, today’s episode is an invitation to real grace for your real life--the kind that meets you behind the smiles and leads you toward deeper healing and hope.
 
💬 Grace Quotes from Joe and Tara Buchanan:
"Grace is not going to flow when I'm still in my head counting.”
"The source of grace is the Vine. Maybe I haven't received grace from my husband recently, but I've received grace from the Lord and that's the starting point."
“It may not get better tomorrow or next week or next month. But in time, as you trust God, He will lay out the plan. He'll give you the next step. Not the next 10. But if we trust Him with one step at a time, He will lead. In time, we begin to see extraordinary advances in our marriage."
 
Scripture Mentioned:
John 15
 
Resources Mentioned:
🌿Joe and Tara Buchanan on Behind Our Smiles podcast 🌿Jennifer and Craig Sakata on Behind Our Smiles, Episode 130 "I Just Wanna Hear the Heartbeat"🌿Jennifer Sakata on Behind Our Smiles, Episode 155 "I'm a Verbal Processor"🎶 Joe and Tara's go-to grace song Abide
Connect with Joe and Tara Buchanan:
Website: behindoursmiles.comInstagram: @joeandtaraFacebook: @tarabme
 
Related Episodes:
Ep. 71 How to Live Deeply Loved | Bill and Kristi GaultiereEp. 40 Be Still and Be Loved | Michael John CusickEp. 39 God's Steadfast Love in Daily Life | Rachael Adams
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Ep. 71 How to Live Deeply Loved | Bill & Kristi Gaultiere

Do you believe you were meant to Live Deeply Loved? According to Bill and Kristi Gaultiere, “empathy is oxygen for the soul.”  Learning how to live deeply loved begins with receiving and offering empathy in our most important relationships--with God, others, and ourselves.
In this episode of Living the Grace Life, Jennifer Sakata sits down with Bill and Kristi Gaultiere, founders of Soul Shepherding and authors of Deeply Loved, to explore how empathy leads to emotional healing, spiritual maturity, and deeper connection. We often settle for shallow relationships but this conversation shows us a better way forward.
Bill and Kristi unpack how empathy transforms the way we love, apologize, listen, and grow. You’ll learn how to move beyond surface-level interactions and experience the safety, belonging, and freedom God intends for your relationships.
In our conversation, we explore:
The difference between true empathy and its counterfeits--coddling and self-pity
Common barriers that make it hard to receive empathy
The Four A's of empathy
Why self-empathy is an expression of gratitude to God
How we unintentionally interrupt empathy by jumping to encouragement
The essential ingredients to offering a sincere, healing apology
As Bill and Kristi remind us: “Truth without empathy is harsh, but empathy without truth is inaccurate. Responsibility without empathy is drudgery, while empathy without responsibility is coddling.” Growth happens when empathy, truth, and responsibility work together.
Listen in and discover how to Live Deeply Loved, and extend that love to others in ways that transform your relationships and your soul.
💬 Grace Quotes from Bill & Kristi Gaultiere:
"We need more than willpower. Empathy helps us go deeper.”
"Empathy plus truth plus responsibility equals growth."
“Empathy is oxygen for the soul."
Scripture Mentioned:
1 Corinthians 15:10
 
Resources Mentioned:
🌿Bill & Kristi's Book Deeply Loved🌿Soul Shepherding Retreat🌿Soul Care Shepherding Spiritual Directors🎶 Kristi's go-to grace song: The Steadfast Love of the Lord🎶 Bill's go-to grace song: Psalm 16 by Shane and Shane
Connect with Bill & Kristi Gaultiere:
Website: soulshepherding.orgInstagram: @soulshepherdingFacebook: @soulshepherding
 
Related Episodes:
Ep. 40 Be Still and Be Loved | Michael John CusickEp. 39 God's Steadfast Love in Daily Life | Rachael AdamsEp. 30 Growing Secure Attachment with God | Summer Joy Gross
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